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Their response is that they have heard that if they don’t get it by the third date, the woman isn’t into them. I’m sorry you’re frustrated, but in my experience as a dating coach, frustration usually results when someone’s expectations are out of line with reality.

The way to mitigate the frustration is not to change reality but to change your expectations.

She wants to (as my evangelical friends put it) date "intentionally" -- that is, with the explicit intention of moving toward marriage.

If a guy isn't marriage material, or has no interest in getting married -- or is planning on waiting until he's struck by divine certainty -- Joanna wants to know sooner rather than later so that she can move on.

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Though exactly what that means or how deep that interest is remains to be seen, you know that you are going on this third date for a reason.

"Joanna" is 33, single, straight, and interested in -- eventually -- getting married and having children.

It's not, as she says a "ticking clock thing"; rather, she's clear that at this age, she's done having casual relationships with men that drift for months and years.

Joanna recently asked me a question: "When is it best to bring up what my goals are?

If I say -- on our first coffee date -- that I'm looking to get married, I'm worried I'll scare most men away.

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